certified dreamer ✔

Hey, hello and hi! |

Welcome to my blog and I hope you enjoy your stay – it would be super duper awesome to be friends with you all so please do swing by in the comments. A little click on the star would also be much appreciated but no pressure since you gotta love what you see in order to share the love!

If you feel like stalking who I am further, you can do so here

My blog’s plotline |

Outlet of spontaneous themes, emotions, and thoughts which wander freely with no restrictions

The whys:

I write because I use words as my weapons to protect me from what I’m running from until I become strong enough to face it head on. I write because I am able to escape into another reality with just one word, and because I’m able to invite you to walk alongside me in the shadows. Sometimes I write because I want to make you smile, or I write with the hope it’ll gift someone with positivity, even if only for a second. Other times I write because I want to experiment with a new style or genre or I’m inspired by something.

Most of the times I want my writing to evoke something within you, whether than be of empathy or not. And other times I just write because my imagination likes to run free, or I want to capture my thoughts and freeze them in time in some metaphorical manner.

To me crafting the alphabet has become my tool of self-expression, and writing the blanket to my soul at times when things seem difficult.

When life gives you hardships, it’s hard to find the reboot button sometimes. It’s hard to find that someone who will give you the little push to the restart button. It’s hard to look past flaws and understand that perfection doesn’t exist and is something constructed superficially by society. However, it isn’t impossible to seek guidance from strangers, draw inspiration from thoughts, and strength from words. Where there’s a will, there is always a flickering light at the end of a dark tunnel. Whether you choose to blow the light out or reach your safe haven depends on whether you’ll keep holding on.

This blog is a collection of words looking into conquering our struggles ’cause let’s face it, not everything is sugar and all things nice in life | sometimes you’ve got to plaster a smile on and get on with life when you want to shut down | and sometimes life goes to plan and everything is sugar and all things nice | sometimes life just doesn’t suck as much as you’ve brought yourself to believe | embrace yourself ’cause no one else can love you like yourself | you’re a stunner just the way you are | stay you ||

A quote or two |

a reader lives a thousand lives before they die | an act of writing is to share a part of your soul with the world

be somebody that makes everyone feel like a somebody ღ

i want someone to look at me and say because of you i didn’t give up

Stalk me elsewhere |


√ Twitter

√ Wattpad

√ Gmail – shoot me an email via my contact me page

Warm thank yous |

All your support means so much to me. I’m always ever so grateful for it and I hope I can continue producing content you’ll enjoy. The idea of a blog wouldn’t be able to be maintained without your support. Love you all x

Take pride in your identity and don’t ever allow anyone to mould you into something you’re not

If you want to be TRUSTED

be honest

If you want to be HONEST

be true

If you want to be TRUE

be yourself



60 thoughts on “certified dreamer ✔

  1. Kate says:

    I love love LOVE this so much! You have such an awesome blog! I don’t know why I just found your blog now but THANK YOU FOR EXISTING
    (And pardon me for being such an exaggerated dope. XD)

    Liked by 2 people

  2. redefiningbeautifulblog says:

    Hi! We just wanted to say thank you for all the positive messages you are sending to us women about the importance of accepting and embracing our bodies and how there is no such thing as perfect.

    It is so important that women become aware of the detrimental effects the media’s limiting messages of what beautiful should look like is having on our self-esteem and self-worth.

    My campaign ‘Redefining Beautiful’ similarly aims to change the stereotype of what is beautiful and highlight the falseness of Instagram.

    We aim to make a positive change to young girls lives and we would really appreciate it if you could support our campaign. The links to our website, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter are below:
    https://www.instagram.com/redefining.beautiful/ and https://www.facebook.com/redefining.beautiful

    Thank you very much

    Liked by 1 person

    • flawedsilence says:

      Hey there!

      Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving such a warm message behind. It is important to tell everyone that beautiful cannot be defined by the media, or society, and that it cannot be found in appearance or trends but instead your nature. I will be sure to check out your campaign and support it. All the best with it!


  3. Kristen says:

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    I believe that you simply could do with some %
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  4. Marioness says:

    I have just find you blog and I have to say that I really like it! I found you in a collaboration post with Regina. There, you said that you are spanish, is this true? (I’m a curious person, just that)
    I also have a blog: marioness.wordpress.com
    It will mean a lot if you could check it out and subscribe if yoi like it!!
    Can’t wait for more posts!!

    Liked by 1 person

    • flawedsilence says:

      Hey there!

      Thank you so much – this comment has made my day! Yes, I did do a collab with Regina in September and no, I’m Tamil haha. Regina is Spanish I think I was the italics and she was the bold. You may have just got our replies mixed up aha. Are you Spanish? (I’m an equally curious person too)

      I will head right over and check your blog out! I’m sure it’ll be fabulous!

      Have a wonderful day x

      Liked by 1 person

      • Marioness says:

        Oh! That’s so cute! I’m glad I make your day! It’s always so good to encourage and discover other bloggers. Oh, sorry for the confusion… Kind of, I’m Catalan ( You probably heard of Barcelona) It’s actually inside Spain but it’s kind of different. Where’s Tamil?? ( Sorry for my ignorance) Thanks for checking out my blog, if you could give me your opinion of it, it will mean a lot!!
        Have also a wonderful day!!!
        Ps. Maybe we can keep in contact via email???


      • flawedsilence says:

        Yes I know the feeling! I love it when people (like you) stop by and say a massive hello! So thank you!

        Oooh you’re the first Catalan person I’ve spoken to! So Tamil people are mainly from Sri Lanka or Tamil Nadu in India (it’s fine, if I’m being honest I didn’t know about the language Catalan until now – I had to google to find out more aha)

        Yes I will leave comments behind don’t worry – I often binge read in the night 😂

        I love your name! I forgot to mention that before

        P.S yes we can! That would be amazing. My email is flawedsilence@gmail.com.

        Liked by 1 person

      • Marioness says:

        You are so kind!! Yeah I also love new people in my blog!! Haha! Yeah, we are a little “country”!!And a few people know Catalonia but that’s okay. It’s so cool you are from Sri Lanka, I’v never been there and I also didn’t know of that Tamil term. Thanks a lot! I will send you an email!!

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  5. crap says:

    i’ve just been binge reading and it has been a while since i found a blog that i could read for hours. I love how each post is dedicated to the readers and how you go out of your way to make someone feel better or give an inspirational message ! I just wanted to become friends because you seem like such a nice person ! hiii i’m Crap !

    Liked by 1 person

    • flawedsilence says:

      Hey hey hey!
      How you doing?
      Waking up to your notifications definitely put a smile on my face like this 😀 thank you so much, this means a lot to me, and I am glad that you find it somewhat inspirational! I would love to be friends, you seem amazing! Feel free to drop me an email anytime! Keep smiling!

      Liked by 1 person

  6. cookandenjoyrecipes says:

    I am so glad I found you as a nominee by Emma’s Attic! of my blog-aholic award. Hope you enjoy it and will also check out my blog and see what’s cooking in our kitchens. As a blog-aholic friend I will now be able to follow you.

    Liked by 1 person

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